I know you feel the need to unload all the lies and relieve yourself of the deception, you have held onto your secrets for decades. They have haunted you forever.
You have led a dual life; one respectable man who others liked and you wanted to be him, but you knew the truth about yourself.
You knew you had this secret “other life” filled with pornography, strip clubs, and fantasies that you’d never tell your wife about. But, to be honest you thought it would get better after you were married… and then you thought it would get better after you had kids… and when things were less stressful at work… at certain points you tried to tell yourself it was no big deal. It didn’t really impact your life, your marriage… but then why did you feel so terrible afterwards… why did you keep lying about it?
It was like your brain was buzzing so this was the only thing you could think about. No matter how much you tried to push it out of your mind. And then, afterwards you felt so much shame that you wondered how anyone could really love you if they knew the truth about what you did in secret.
After your wife caught you the first time, you were sure that would be the end of it. You told her it would be the end of it. And it was… for a little while. But, it felt like no matter how long you "held out" your wife never seemed to start trusting you again. It starts to feel like a losing battle.
You need and deserve support for the truly hard work you are doing of changing such a big, secret part of your life.
I can show you the steps to walking down this path with support from your spouse.
I have specific programs that aim to create trust back into your relationship more quickly. The first step is now today. Take a chance, make a choice just for you that will show yourself that you are serious about change.
Take a chance and learn about how you can finally start taking your power back, and rebuilding your relationship so your wife starts to look at you the way she used to. Fill out the form below to learn more about this life transforming opportunity that includes individual and/or group Counseling in Tacoma Washington.
If you live in the Tacoma, Washington area and are ready to leave the secret sexual life behind you, fill out the form below today for a FREE 15 minute phone consultation.